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Mishlei 03-05 (Connecting to the Source)

Mishlei 03-05

Connecting to the Source

[Pesukim 3:5 thru 3:10]

Key Concepts

In Gan Eden when man gained the power of bechirah (free will), he lost something precious. He lost the fullness of his bond to Hashem and the instinctive sense of having been created by Him. His mind became clouded with the illusion that he was an independent being who could choose to do as he wished. It was no longer obvious to him that everything which happened in the world was Hashem’s will. He no longer knew in his heart that even when he made a choice, the physical outcome would be determined by the Creator.

The challenge that man now had was to overcome the illusion that he was the owner of his wisdom. His task was to use that wisdom to connect back to the Source of wisdom. This was extremely difficult for him and it took many generations before Avraham Avinu came on the scene and fully re-established the bond between man and his Creator.

Exploring Mishlei

We, who are Avraham’s descendants, have the benefit of his spiritual legacy and the teachings of the Torah. We need to make use of these resources to make the connection with the Creator that is so important to our avodas Hashem. In this segment Mishlei offers us four basic guidelines (Authenticity, Awareness, Humility, Gratitude) to help us implement these teachings.

AUTHENTICITY. Act only on authentic wisdom — the wisdom of Torah.

ה =  בְּטַח אֶל ה’ בְּכָל לִבֶּךָ וְאֶל בִּינָתְךָ אַל תִּשָּׁעֵן

(5) Trust in Hashem with all your heart and don’t rely on your understanding.

AWARENESS. Always be aware of Hashem — the Source of Wisdom.

ו =  בְּכָל דְּרָכֶיךָ דָעֵהוּ וְהוּא יְיַשֵּׁר אֹרְחֹתֶיךָ

(6) Know Him in all your ways and He will smooth your paths.

HUMILITY. Don’t take pride in your wisdom.

ז = אַל תְּהִי חָכָם בְּעֵינֶיךָ יְרָא אֶת ה’ וְסוּר מֵרָע
ח = רִפְאוּת תְּהִי לְשָׁרֶּךָ וְשִׁקּוּי לְעַצְמוֹתֶיךָ

(7) Don’t be wise in your own eyes. Fear Hashem and turn away from evil.
(8) It will be health to your navel and the marrow of your bones.

GRATITUDE. Be grateful for your wisdom.

ט=  כַּבֵּד אֶת ה’ מֵהוֹנֶךָ וּמֵרֵאשִׁית כָּל תְּבוּאָתֶךָ

י =  וְיִמָּלְאוּ אֲסָמֶיךָ שָׂבָע וְתִירוֹשׁ יְקָבֶיךָ יִפְרֹצוּ

(9) Honor Hashem with your wealth and the first of all your produce.
(10) Then your storehouses will be filled with plenty and the wine of your vats will burst forth.

Learning Mishlei


ה= בְּטַח אֶל ה’ בְּכָל לִבֶּךָ וְאֶל בִּינָתְךָ אַל תִּשָּׁעֵן

Trust in Hashemבְּטַח אֶל ה’
and His wisdom, as revealed in the Torah
with all your heartבְּכָל לִבֶּךָ .
Let your decisions in life be based on that wisdom. It would be foolish arrogance to think that you can achieve your selfish objectives by following your own
thoughts when they go against Hashem’s will.

Let Hashem’s wisdom be your only guide
and don’t rely on your understandingוְאֶל בִּינָתְךָ אַל תִּשָּׁעֵן
which may be self-serving. Accordingly, don’t put your trust in the illusory power of your wealth and in promises that people have made to you. If you do, you are really placing your trust in yourself, and the assessment you have personally made. Instead, place your trust in Hashem, and you can be assured of a satisfactory outcome, for the power to determine the outcome is really in His hands, not yours.


ו =  בְּכָל דְּרָכֶיךָ דָעֵהוּ וְהוּא יְיַשֵּׁר אֹרְחֹתֶיךָ

Don’t limit your commitment to Hashem to the major issues in life. Be aware of His presence and apply His wisdom in everything you do, no matter how small. Always consider whether you are pleasing Him by your action. This means that
you should know Him in all your ways
בְּכָל דְּרָכֶיךָ דָעֵהוּ .
Remember, that everything in your life depends on Him.

If you make a sincere effort to involve the wisdom of Hashem in your every action, He will be there to help you every step of the way and He will smooth your pathsוְהוּא יְיַשֵּׁר אֹרְחֹתֶיךָ
so that you will succeed in what you do.


ז=  אַל תְּהִי חָכָם בְּעֵינֶיךָ יְרָא אֶת ה’ וְסוּר מֵרָע

Remember that wisdom is a gift from Hashem. When you are being admonished, don’t be wise in your own eyesאַל תְּהִי חָכָם בְּעֵינֶיךָ and say you know better. And when you achieve success don’t pat yourself on the back for your shrewdness. Your success came from Hashem.

Don’t be misled by your pride. Fear Hashem יְרָא אֶת ה’,
Who created you and watches over you.
It is only with His help that you will be able to overcome your bad middos and turn away from evilוְסוּר מֵרָע .

 ח=  רִפְאוּת תְּהִי לְשָׁרֶּךָ וְשִׁקּוּי לְעַצְמוֹתֶיךָ

By turning way from what is bad you will be pleasing your Creator. It will also make you a better person, morally and physically.
Thus, it will be a source of health to your navel  (רִפְאוּת תְּהִי לְשָׁרֶּךָ which symbolizes the flow of nutrients to your body when you were an embryo in your mother’s womb.
And it will infuse strength to the structure of your body as symbolized
by the marrow of your bones (וְשִׁקּוּי לְעַצְמוֹתֶיךָ).


ט=  כַּבֵּד אֶת ה’ מֵהוֹנֶךָ  וּמֵרֵאשִׁית כָּל תְּבוּאָתֶךָ

You are indebted to your Creator for giving you wisdom.
Honor Hashemכַּבֵּד אֶת ה’
by serving Him with everything that He has given you.
Honor him with your wealthמֵהוֹנֶךָ
and everything you you possess, including your wisdom and all your talents. If you are blessed with a good voice, honor Hashem with it by singing beautiful zemiros and tefillos to inspire others.

And give the first of all your produceּוּמֵרֵאשִׁית כָּל תְּבוּאָתֶךָ
to the Kohanim and Leviim, so that they can devote themselves to guiding the
people. Then they can serve as a conduit for the blessings of Hashem to His nation. If you have been blessed with wisdom, devote the best of your abilities to learning and teaching Torah.

 י =  וְיִמָּלְאוּ אֲסָמֶיךָ שָׂבָע וְתִירוֹשׁ יְקָבֶיךָ יִפְרֹצוּ

Don’t let your devotion be inhibited by the cost of doing mitzvos and giving
tzedakah. The blessings of Hashem’s bounty will come back to you.
Your storehouses will be filled with plentyוְיִמָּלְאוּ אֲסָמֶיךָ שָׂבָע
and the wine of your vats will burst forth with fullness.  וְתִירוֹשׁ יְקָבֶיךָ יִפְרֹצוּ
Just as your material assets will be blessed so will your spiritual endeavors, such as building institutions of learning and kindness, for you have devoted the best of your intellectual powers to serving Hashem.

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